Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Just What the Doctor Ordered

So, I am thinking that many of you might have noticed a little bit of a "edge" to my more recent posts. You may have had thoughts like, "Wow. I am so glad I don't let my kids play at her house," or "Good thing I really haven't talked to her that much lately, she might've bitten my head off."

I don't blame you, I haven't been at my best. So, it was decided I needed a little bit of a vacation to get some sleep and take in a little perspective. When I asked Blair about the possibility of me visiting my friend, Jane, in So Cal a couple of weeks ago...he was very supportive. I do think he might've been anxious to get rid of me.

SO...I left and got the chance to reconnect with one of my best friends. Jane and I have known each other since 6th grade. She stuck by me, the "New Kid" even when the cool girls told me in the lunch line the first day, (and I quote) "We liked our group just the way it was." (They were serving lunch, because that was the cool thing to do at Knowlton Elementary back then.) To be honest, I cannot remember a time Jane hasn't stuck by me. She is a true friend and one of the most genuine and kind people I know. We had only briefly kept in touch over the past years, and really she didn't have much of an idea what she was getting herself into letting me stay with her for 3 days. I could've been a freak cult polygamist wife or something...but, she took her chances -and within minutes of picking me up at the airport, I was pouring my heart out. It was like I never was away, and we were back in tenth grade.
Highlights of the Trip...
Sutra


The very, way too cool for me, club where we got in and saw DJ AM "spin." (I am probably too old to use that word.) It was pretty awesome. (Other than the strange men using pickup lines like, "Hey, it's my friend's birthday, so..." Nice.)

Facials and Lunch With Mel


I am not in this picture, because I look like I may have walked out of a grease factory after the facial. But, Jane and Mel are always hot, so they stay. It was so fun to see Mel - I am afraid she is never returning to Utah!!

The Angels Game



We all know I am a sports' fan, and I love Major League Baseball. My parent's got tickets while they were in town watching Maddi cheer at Nationals, and invited us to go with them. (Maddi did awesome by the way!!)

The Love of My Life...Or, the Beach


I cannot go to the beach without crying. It reminds me of my childhood in San Diego and creates a peace within me I feel nowhere else.
That being said, I became burnt toast by evening.
Jane was the worlds' most incredible host. She drove me around everywhere, made me awesome food, and let me meet some of her closest friends (including Jake, who I like very much:), and listened - endlessly listened. I am indebted to her, and so are some of you who unfortunately are around me quite often:)
Now, the coolest part about coming home was of course, seeing my family, but even more importantly, the house was clean. Blair knew that would just be the "icing on the cake" to help top off a wonderful weekend. How cool is he to hang out with our two kids, take them to soccer, and give Deak a suppository while I go on vacation?
I am very lucky, and a lot more relaxed.
Don't worry though...bitchy Jenny will still make frequent appearances on the blog. She is never far.

8 comments:

Jane said...

Awwwww, you are so sweet! You can come visit any time expecially if you are going to say such nice things about me. I agree it was like we were back in 10th grade. I keep giggling to myself today at how many movies we intended to watch, but one of us would bring something up and the conversation would go on for hours. Too fun!!! I am missing you already!

Brianne said...

Jane seriously does that to people (the feeling comfortable and spilling your guts). Even her friend Jen said how weird it is that last time I was there.
I am glad you had such a fabulous 3 days. Nothing better than good friends and the beach!

Brianne said...

P.S. Isn't it fun to get back to your hubby and kids??? It makes things feel all better...at least for a moment:)

Tami Harris said...

First off, I LOVE your new page! It's adorable. Secondly (is that a word?) I am so glad that you had a chance to get away and regroup, isn't amazing what it does to the soul? BTW- I hope that your sunburn isn't keeping you up at night! :)

Kelli K said...

Jen I am so glad you got to get away(i'm glad you got the hook up on some angels tickets!) you looked like you got the r and r you needed!!

Nikki said...

I'm way jealous!! But I hope you had a nice break from life at home. The beach suits you, I miss it as well I wonder if thats why we don't ski.

Carly said...

Good for you! Glad you went and had fun.

Tia said...

Honestly, sometimes a little weekend getaway with the girls does the trick. It looks like you totally had fun...So Cal is the bomb.